noun (n)

• polished courtesy; elegance of manner(noun.attribute)

  source: wordnet30
• the quality or character of life in a city or town(noun.attribute)

  Example:
  There is an important difference between rusticity and urbanity.
  

  Antonym:
  gaucherie, rusticity
  

  source: wordnet30
• The quality or state of being urbane; civility or courtesy of manners; politeness; refinement.(noun)

  source: webster1913