Apa yang Harus Diucapkan Ketika Seseorang Meninggal

Mungkin anda sering bingung, apa yang harus diucapkan kepada kerabat/keluarga yang meninggal.

Ucapan belasungkawa apa yang tepat diucapkan. Jangan-jangan apa yang kita ucapkan salah dimengerti sehingga menimbulkan sakit hati.

Nah berikut kata-kata belasungkawa yang bisa anda ucapkan dalam Bahasa Inggris.

• My deepest sympathy for the loss of your family member. I will hold the memories we shared together so close to my heart.
• My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. Wishing you the best and know you have my full support in every moment.
• I’m so sorry for your loss. If you need to talk, I’m a good listener.
• I’m so very sorry for your loss. [Name] was a wonderful person. What can I do to help you right now?
• I’m so sad and sorry to hear about [Name]. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
• I don’t know what to say, except that I’m so sorry. There are no words.
• We all loved [Name]. She had a way of making people smile. We’re going to miss her.

Yang tidak boleh dikatakan

Berikut kata-kata yang sebaiknya tidak boleh diucapkan ketika mengucapkan belasungkawa:

• She’s in a better place.
• You might be sad now, but time heals. You’ll eventually get over it.
• Cheer up. Your loved one wouldn’t want you to be sad.
• Pull yourself together because you need to be there for your kids.
• Everything happens for a reason. God never gives us more than we can cope with.
• Be happy. You will find someone else one day.